rui: (i love when people love)
i will gladly stay an afterthought. ([personal profile] rui) wrote2011-02-07 01:35 pm
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Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
Day Seven: Four turn-offs.
Day Eight: Three turn-ons.
Day Nine: Two images that describe your life right now, and why.
Day Ten: One confession.

You know what, let me just. Put a huge motherfucking disclaimer on this. NO ONE IS REQUIRED TO MEET MY STANDARDS. EVER. If i say i like you, then i do, regardless of whether or not you see yourself on any of these lists.


1. Being funny, and willing to laugh. Having a sense of wit and humor is very attractive. Life is funny. Sometimes sex is hilarious. That's often the good part.

2. Being able to read my moods. It's apparently a skill? I'm not very outwardly emotional (this is an understatement, the words 'robotic' 'cold' and 'flat' have been invoked more than once), so by the time people note my feelings they're often fairly extreme. Same thing goes for gestures--i have a stunted sense of romance and 'mood', and show my affection and caring in different ways. Seeing those things for what they are is attractive.

3. Being assertive without being pushy. People who know what they want and pursue it are sexy.

This meme just really highlights for me that i have pretty much the same standards for sexual partners as i do for friendship. None of these things are directly related to sex, but they...still are. Hm. :/

postscript: three turn-ons that are...directly sexual in nature?
1. Tasting. Being bitten is eeh, but in general mouths on bodies is A++.
2. Self-control, and pushing the boundaries of it. Voluntary stillness, slow touching, that sort of thing.
3. Reactions. Seeing/hearing/feeling reactions, especially the subtle ones. Tiny intimate details about people are my favorite ones.

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