rui: (schecksy)
i will gladly stay an afterthought. ([personal profile] rui) wrote2011-01-20 12:33 pm
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Day One: Ten things you want to say to ten different people right now.
Day Two: Nine things about yourself.
Day Three: Eight ways to win your heart.
Day Four: Seven things that cross your mind a lot.
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
Day Seven: Four turn-offs.
Day Eight: Three turn-ons.
Day Nine: Two images that describe your life right now, and why.
Day Ten: One confession.

1. Be honest. I prefer knowing where i stand, not having to figure it out on my own. This doesn't mean everything has to be said, just that the things that are ought to be true.

2. Acknowledge other human beings as being just like you. Which doesn't mean they'll think and act as you do, just that the world isn't populated with automatons. People who consider and account for the humanity in others, both for good and bad, are considerate in the way i think is awesome.

3. Enjoy sex. Reading, talking, considering, debating, having it. I tend to be fairly sexually open, and it's good to just be able to talk about things without behind-the-hand tittering.

4. Be appropriately cuddly. There is a time and a place for touching, and a brand of people with whom it is lovely and a brand with whom it is not. Having a good sense of those things is very charming.

5. Have secret depths. It is nice to be able to have new conversations frequently, and i like people with internal surprises.

6. Be indulgent, but not coddling. Being fussed over is offputting to me, but i am easily swayed by people who put up with or interest themselves in my dorky hobbies and timewasters.

7. Pay attention. Just in general.

8. Be a combination of well-educated and meme-savvy. There's no need to separate the highbrow and the lowbrow, and it's totally acceptable to shorthand Deep Thoughts in lolcat or capslock. Taking onesself too seriously is a dangerous business.